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Being a nice person is going to get you a lot further in life than being an asshole.

Let me tell you this, 9 out of 10 top tier entrepreneurs you’ll meet are the nicest people around.

Where you’re going to run into jerks is right below the high level guys. Mid-level people.

Everybody says, "Oh, people at the top are fake.”

Trust me, they’re going to be some of the nicest people you'll ever meet.

To succeed, you have to be likable, and being aggressive and rude is very dangerous.

Here’s why:

If you’re an asshole, you’re gonna attract like minded people.  It’s a downward spiral. If you're an asshole to people, all the good people around you leave. You're left with assholes, who then do bad things to you and then you become more of an asshole.

Part of the reason why so many successful people are nice to everyone is because they’ve already made it. They really don’t care about beating others. They’re only concerned with what they’re doing, and too busy to listen to other people’s negativity.

I always say that in order to be successful, you have to have humility. That means that you listen to what others have to say, and you recognize that you’re not the best and brightest person in the room.

You have to respect other people, because no matter who they are, you might learn something from them. To be the most successful person, you need to ask more questions and have the least answers.

Tai Lopez

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